Why Women of China are Great Matches for Foreign Men
Let's not beat around the bushes here. Chinese women are the ideal choice for a mate for foreign men because they offer all the qualities that such men desire in a life partner, and more… so much more.
Making a lifelong commitment is no small deal – it’s probably the most important decision you’ll make in your life. So the importance of wisely choosing a life partner cannot be overstated. For western men, the ideal lifelong partner is, on top of being someone they love, a woman they can completely trust, respect, and take pride in. And these ladies are, without a doubt, the complete package.
Women of China “date” to find a mate for life – not just to test the waters and never just to satisfy a temporary need. To the Chinese, dating is serious business about a lifelong commitment. So when one of these women decides you are her man, you can trust her to love you and care for you until death do you part!
You can bare your soul to her and you won’t be afraid that she won’t accept you. Western men know very well that it is nearly impossible nowadays to find such a partner among western women; but when you find the right Chinese woman, trusting her will come easily and because you’ll have no doubt that she will be there for you through thick and thin.
The woman you’ll spend the rest of your life with must, of course, be somebody you can respect or, more precisely, somebody that has earned your respect. When you get to know the ladies of CLM, respect for them will come easily. Their incredible strength in pursuing self-improvement while also trying to live up to the traditional gender expectations borne by them; their independence despite the obstacles that are designed to take it away from them; their aspirations to be the best they can be and to be “good women” despite all the discouragements thrown at them by their society – you will quickly come to hold them in the utmost respect!
And, as the world is fast discovering, Chinese women are beautiful – inside and out! The genuine women of CLM are all attractive in own ways, whatever their age, because they take care of themselves really well and take great pride in their appearance. Looking good and feeling good are, of course, a big part of loving one’s self and a healthy dose of vanity is something that you’ll appreciate in your life mate, especially as your friends look on in envy! Once you come to know some of the female members of CLM, you will learn that they also have the intelligence and a kind heartedness to match their outward appeal. Any western man would be lucky, and should be proud, to find such a woman and to have her as his mate!
No ifs or buts about it – Chinese women make the ideal life mate for foreign men!
CLM: Your Home For Chinese Dating
Dating Chinese Women is Not the Same! Here's Some Tips.
So you think you’re a master pick-up artist; you have been around the dating block many times; and you feel that you’re a veritable Casanova, a bona fide Ladies’ Man. But now you feel you are ready for that lifelong commitment. Perhaps you’re just a normal guy who has so far been unsuccessful in your search for your ideal woman. Either way, now you would like to step out of your comfort zone and brave the world of cross-cultural dating, specifically Chinese dating.
That’s actually a good plan. Chinese women are, as countless western men know, the ideal choice! But if you want to successfully date a Chinese woman, don’t forget that it’s not the same as dating western women!
Slowly but surely wins the race – make this the cornerstone of your approach to Chinese dating and you won’t go wrong. Again, Chinese women are seriously looking for The One, their Mr. Right; this is no game to them. Once they have made a choice, they devote their entire life loving this man. The phrase “lifetime commitment” is one that they take seriously and literally. Some of them commit quickly, because once they feel you meet the basic requirements, they believe love will follow over time. Others have already made one mistake and don’t want to make another. This means they will want to take their time getting to know a potential partner. Have patience with those who push too hard and with those who are afraid of failure; it will pay off.
Honesty is the best policy – lay your cards on the table so you won’t waste anybody’s time! Dating a Chinese woman is not like all those transitory encounters you used to have with western women – when fibbing and embellishing were an acceptable practice. Chinese women already know what they’re looking for in a partner; their expectations are already set; their hopes for the future, painted clearly and indelibly in their head. So be honest about what you have to offer, about your goals and your own expectations. Honesty is a trait Chinese women value highly in a potential partner.
Flattery will not get you anywhere – at least, not anywhere near your goal of finding a good, Chinese wife! What will make your Chinese dating pursuits bear fruit is your willingness to go the extra mile to learn as much as you can about Chinese women, Chinese culture, Chinese language, and all the other things that will serve as the foundation of your future cross-cultural relationship. She will appreciate the compliment when you tell her she’s lovely, but if you really want to impress a Chinese woman, send her a simple message in Chinese or show interest in a certain Chinese cuisine, tradition, or holiday.
Keep the romance alive – western style romance is something all Chinese women long for and they will appreciate even the smallest, romantic gesture because this is something that Chinese men don’t understand. You don’t have to be extravagant to sweep her off her feet; you just have to be thoughtful and affectionate to make a Chinese woman swoon, but, of course, be sincere about it!
Have a life plan, and make it one you can deliver on. These ladies are interested in a lifelong future with you, and that requires that there is some security in such a life. Show her you can and will, with her assistance, be able to provide her a good home and a secure life. Chinese women are incredibly hard workers, and she will do everything she can to make your plan work, so long as she believes it’s a good plan, and you are a good man.
Dating Chinese women is not about fun and games, although once they feel secure and loved these women are as vibrant and fun to be with as any women in the world. Let her know you are serious about the future too, not just fooling around. You’ll be well on your way to a lifetime relationship with a very fine Chinese woman.