Chinese Love Beliefs
In the Chinese Culture, and many other Asian Cultures, the giving of gifts by a
man to his Lady is crucial evidence of love and affection. The Chinese Lady "takes
care of her man" – she keeps the home, looks out for his health, feeds him (literally),
raises his children, looks after his family, caters to his every whim, gives him
her body, and frequently tolerates his bad moods an ill manners. In return he reciprocates
with the frequent giving of gifts.
To a Western Man the need to give gifts may seem to commercialize the relationship,
which is supposed to be about "love", not "material things", isn't it? But she is
not Western, and to her, the failure to give gifts is a sure sign that you do not
care and do not appreciate all that she does for you.
ChinaLoveMatch.net currently can deliver flowers and gifts to any address in Mainland
China. Your potential partner will appreciate both your gift and the special attention she
is receiving from you.
Guidelines
You can send your potential partner flowers, baskets, plush toys and other gifts
with our prompt Gift & Flower Delivery service. Delivery of flowers and baskets
is usually available within 24 hours, other gifts by express post within 3 to 5
days.
You must provide the following:
- The Number of Gift items you wish to send.
- The Name and Catalogue Number of the gift(s) you wish to send.
- The approximate date of delivery you require (we cannot guarantee exact delivery
dates but will always try our best to accommodate your request).
- The lady's username (for flowers and baskets we make a call to be sure she will
be at home to receive your gift in person).
Numbers:
Numbers are important in Chinese culture. Good numbers: 6 = Good Luck (generally),
8 = Good Fortune (wealth), 9 = Everlasting (love, for example), 10 = Perfection,
11 = Undivided Attention. Bad numbers: 4 = Death, 5 = Poverty.
