Internet dating, particularly for people seeking true friendship, love and long-term relationships, should be three things:
Sincere;
Fun; and
Safe. Here at CLM we strive to make it all three.
First, we endeavor to ensure that we are attracting members who are genuinely interested in real & sincere relationships. Our ads specify that our members are seeking
Online Dating,
Romance,
Love, or
Long Term Relationships and they indicate clearly that we are not about brief encounters, cyber flings or short term dating. Anyone trying to register who indicates in some fashion that they are seeking only casual dating or brief sexual encounters will be passed over and not approved.
Secondly, we work hard to make your
Online Dating Fun. Our eMagazines are loaded with articles that give you tips on making the most of your time
Web Dating, such as how to write a great profile or how to be popular, and other articles filled with good pointers, mixed with humor, about Chinese women, life in China, and various other relevant topics. More articles are added regularly. We are also constantly upgrading our website to ad new features that have been specifically recommended or requested by our members. When our members speak, we listen.
Finally, a
CLM Member really is a member, not just a number. We highly value the right of our members to
feel safe in their search for the relationship they are seeking, and we constantly police the website for people who are here for the wrong reasons, and are not truly interested in a sincere friendship, romance, love or long-term relationship. We reject registrants every day, who seem fake, insincere or to be outright Scammers. We also encourage our members to report anyone they suspect is a Scammer, and we investigate when they do. On CLM Scammers memberships are instantly terminated, but more than that, when we catch them they are locked up in
Scammer Prison. And while other dating sites ignore Scammers, trying to pretend they don’t exist, our
Internet Dating Service sends an email notice to every member who has been in contact with a convicted Scammer to beware, to terminate contact and not to trust the convicted member.
Our CLM and CCeMagazines are also full of articles advising how to practise
Online Dating Safety. Our goal is to be a
Scammer Free website. We recommend the following:
- Beware of "Agents": they pose as a member, then when you're hooked, reveal they are her agent and start asking for money.
- Beware of "Scammers": they “love” you in order to get into your wallet and bank account.
- Beware of "Predators": they want to lure you into situations where your personal safety is an issue.
- Beware of "Game Players": people who are "committed" to you but really have multiple online partners.
Report suspicions to us - we investigate!