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Success Stories
         
Of course, like all serious dating sites we have our success stories, and here are some of them. These Western men came to CLM to seek, find, meet, befriend, chat with, and love a beautiful Chinese women, and succeeded. So can you.
Kahnsfury and Windyhuang Form a Perfect Match

A great Chinese wedding for a great couple.Kahnsfury is otherwise known as Neil Yaun, one of CLM's original bloggers. Neil was living a life in the USA that wasn't fulfilling for him, and was not a happy man. But rather than just feeling sorry for himself and giving in, he envisioned a better life for himself in China. So he grabbed the bull by the horns and wrestled it to the ground, and came to China to start anew.  Two years later he is living his dream, and a lot of that is clearly thanks to a great partner in WIndyhuang, who has been supporting him from the day he arrived. These are two great people who have now formed a great marriage. May their happiness be eternal.
 

Neil's Story
 

When I first met Windy on CLM I knew there was something special about her.  She always knew how to brighten my day after a horrible night at work.  It seemed as if we had known each other our whole lives, not just the weeks and months before I met her in person.  Talking to her was such a balm for my life at that time because I’d been so lonely for so long I’d almost forgotten how it felt to have an emotional connection to someone.  The ability to talk to her about anything felt amazing and when it came time for me to go to China I knew she had to be the first person I would meet.

I remember the advice from CLM by heart on how to succeed at finding love in China and I followed that advice to the letter.  Windy and I met online via the awesome kiss feature.  It’s especially helpful tool for introverted and shy people who have a hard time breaking the ice.  After we exchanged kisses we talked for a few weeks and then took the next level by having a video chat.  It was great to hear her voice for the first time and to hear her wonderful laugh.  It brought us closer together and made the distance between us insignificant.

When the day came and I met Windy I was blown away by how beautiful she was.  The pictures and video chat did not do her justice and for the first time since we’d met online I was struck speechless.  We seemed to compliment the other completely.  Yin and Yang personified the glowing white heat of passion of me brought into balance with her cool reasoned logic.  It opened a whole new world for both of us to explore together.

Since that day we have share so many first times in our relationship.  From her first experience with a fork and knife to my adventures in Chinese cuisine and even though those things sound unimportant, I’ve realized that it’s those small things in relationships that truly make life special.  The way she takes my hand when we watch a movie to the hug and kiss I give her when she gets home from work.  These small acts of affection are the things I’d been missing in my life for years.

When we got married I gained a new family and even though I was extremely nervous about the idea of Chinese family and the problems that can affect a relationship.  They accepted me with open arms and feed me till I can’t eat anymore.  On the day of our wedding all of Windy’s family brought their little babies up to me so they could meet their new “shushu.”  I had a warm fuzzy feeling inside when I saw these beautiful children and realized the true power of family.

So now we are a family and someday we will have our own babies to show off to their aunts and uncles and when that day comes I get to experience the next joy that comes with being called husband and that is being called father.
 

Windy's Story
 

 

Windy's family welcomes Neil into their family.相遇,相知,相爱

        首先在这里要非常感谢CLM让我遇到了我生命中的他。从我们在CLM开始闲聊的那天开始到现在已经有几年时间了,而我们也已经正式的成为了夫妻。真的很感谢CLM给我机会遇到了一个这么珍惜我的人。

        自从我在一个网站中无意的看到CLM的介绍后我就注册了一个账号。闲来无事就会到网站上逛逛聊聊。其实我之前就有在其他网站上注册过一些账号,希望有所收获,可惜一直没有找到合适的人。因此开始的时候并没有太多的期望。只希望能认识更多的朋友的同时可以练练我的英语。就在2010年的某一天,我看到了他的资料,感觉他的自我介绍特别的真诚。说实在的在逛过那么多的交友网站后我很容易就能读出那些人的资料是真诚的还是只是忽悠别人的。在看了Neil的资料后,我就给他发了Kiss,希望能交到这位朋友。

         事情往往是出乎人的意料之外的。在一段时间的通讯后,我发现我非常的喜欢跟他聊天的感觉,非常的舒服非常的自在。无论我提出怎样的问题他都是很真诚的回答,而且只要他有什么事不能实时得回答我的问题,或是要离开一段时间不能跟我在网上聊天时,他都会告知我。这让我感觉这个人非常的真诚。我们聊天的内容真的是天南地北,历史,政治,各自的人生观,世界观和家庭观都非常的相似。遇到他就像在跟一个已经认识很久的朋友在聊天一样。他对我都是知无不言,言无不尽,让我感觉到我在他心目中不一样的地位。

        慢慢的我们从CLM聊到了MSN,因为时差的关系,我们只能在早上和晚上这一两个小时里面尽量多的交谈。有时候为了可以跟他聊天等他上线,早上6点起床聊到8点后再去上班,上班到公司的第一件事就是打开电脑希望能赶在他上班前的那么几分钟再聊一下。晚上在家开着电脑等着他上线,有时聊到深夜我都不愿意去睡觉。就这样持续了好长的一段时间。在那段日子里我感到非常的幸福,真的有恋爱的感觉。我甚至有跟他最好的朋友们都有聊天过。我感觉到我在我在他心中的重要性,心里甜滋滋的感觉油然而生。

       通过那段时间的交谈,我相信他就是那个我要找的人,我曾经对自己说过,只有我们有机会在一起,我一定不会放开他的手。没想到我的这个想法很快就有了有机会实现的机会。

      终于,漫长的网聊结束了。那一天,我一早就感到了火车站,那么几分钟的等待就像一个世纪一样,终于我见到了他。这个在我心目中我想一辈子珍惜的人。那一天,我把他从火车站带到了酒店,我们一起去吃饭,那时我第一次使用叉子和刀子吃饭,那时他第一次尝到真真正正的中国菜;那时我第一次用尝试我的英语,他第一次尝试说中文;那时他第一次尝试点心,我第一次去酒吧;那时我第一次跟外国人约会,他第一次感受到那么多人奇异的目光,那时我第一次感受到自己的眼光狭隘,第一次感受到人们的愚蠢(无疑冒犯,这是我当时真实的感觉)。我们一起尝试了很多很多的第一次,每一次的相见每一次的约会都是那么的开心,那么的兴奋,让我更加的确定他的好他的真诚他的善良他对我的好。通过了两年的相处,到今天我们终于结为连理,我真的非常非常的幸福。我相信在接下来的日子里面我们一定会更加幸福的。

        在这里我要再一次感谢CLM让我遇到我的老公Neil. Thanks a lot.         

All is peaceful now, but next come the mixed Chinese babies.

Best Wishes/Comments
zhangyongli312 1/31/2016 5:11:40 PM @zhangyongli312
祝福你们!羡慕你们!愿我也能有这样的异国情缘,找到我的真爱。
AWEN0321 9/7/2013 7:36:20 PM @AWEN0321
有缘千里来相会!祝幸福美满!
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