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Success Stories
         
Of course, like all serious dating sites we have our success stories, and here are some of them. These Western men came to CLM to seek, find, meet, befriend, chat with, and love a beautiful Chinese women, and succeeded. So can you.
May393 & Autumnleaf1 Begin A Life Long Happiness

May393 and Autumnleaf find a lifetime of happiness on CLM.My CLM Love Story:

Like the flying Dutchman was endlessly sailing the seas without finding a harbour, I was searching for the woman to love with all my heart. But I never seemed to find her.
 
It's autumn. I'm in China visiting friends. I will soon go to met HER in a restaurant, the beautiful May393, who I met on CLM. Of course I already met her in QQ. My expectations are high. I know I can easily be disappointed. 
 
I joined CLM in spring 2012 and soon decided to upgrade to "Gold" membership. One day I spotted a beautiful woman with a different presentation -  it seemed more sincere and very honest. That was May393.
 
I think it happened in fractions of a second – the moment when our eyes met the first time in reality. I was in love! Not the usual crush – but deep, mutual understanding, love and respect.
 
We already knew each other from CLM. We already knew that we shared values, lifestyle, habits, hope for the future, hope to meet the love of ours lives. All these mutual feelings converged into one feeling, one desire, one future, the second our eyes met the first time. I could “see” her thoughts in her eyes (because she let me)! They were warm and filled with love. They were also bright and intelligent.
 
Of course it took a while before I understood what had happened. Western men think long and act slow. I also heard that from May393. But she was patient and I was determined to meet her. After one week together and many emails, many phone text messages and many QQ chats, I finally I understood that May393 was serious about a future together. I asked her to marry me and she said “Yes”.
 
Ever since that moment, I'm convinced that I'm the happiest man in the world: I have found the woman of my dreams. We will share a bright future, we will share happiness and sorrow. We will make each other laugh, we will comfort each other when one of us is sad. Our love is the most wonderful, the most powerful and it will carry us through life in our common future. Of course we will struggle to get everyday life to work. Of course we need to adapt to the needs of our children. But life is not a short honeymoon in one place. Life is a journey to new places, new thinking and new feelings – that journey brings us far out in the real world and deep into our minds and our hearts. I will do this journey with the woman of my dreams, the woman I love and respect, the woman I will grow old together with; May393 from CLM. 
 
Thank you, CLM!


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爱情故事

May393 and Autumnleaf1 - true love has been found.我准备和Autumnleaf1记结婚的前几天,我梦到了我故去多年的爸爸。许久未梦见父亲,他的模样依旧是多年前那般消瘦。梦里,一个家宴上,父亲举杯说:今天开心阿,我的女儿历尽千磨百炼、千辛万苦,终于遇上了对的人。”Autumnleaf1,就是那个Mr. Right

别人说,这个世界上有人每天吃掉900克金属,有人可以水下憋气15分零2秒,有人能把17汤匙同时贴在脸上,有人能一个嗝打了68年,有人可以在嘴里塞400根吸管,有人把自己的指甲留到3.098米,有人在自己的身上穿了453环和钉。世界人各式各样的人都有,我也一直相信各种奇迹。所以当我碰到Autumnleaf1时候,我几乎没有丝毫怀疑,世上就有那么一个人,他的生活习惯、为人处世、人生观、价值观都与我相契合得刚刚好,彼此的默契也正好是百分之百一分不少,对话框里我未打完的今天天气如何,显示屏上已出现他的今天天气晴,爱你。感觉上,这样的感情像极了故乡,熟悉每一条街道,习惯气候的变化。我很知足

记得刚认识Autumnleaf1时,他的态度一直不温不火,也许这就是北欧男人,谈吐间总似带股凉风,让人愉快却又保持距离。而我则丝毫不掩饰自己的好感。照片上,他身着一套家居服,儒雅的眉目,与女儿在户外忙着烧烤。正是我喜欢的样子。然而几封信的来往,却让我有些心生怯意。他的回复来得时快时慢,虽都有附带解释缘由且语气诚恳亲切,但我一直感觉不到恋爱中该有的火候。也有想过要放弃,趁还没陷得深,先把希望掐断。好在女儿一直在旁解析北欧男人的性子,没了解前绝不轻举妄动”“这样的男人才靠!”“人家不解释得好好的,不就迟了几天回复,有什么好不满意的”“错过这村没这庙”…… 这样,我满心忐忑的迎来了和Autumnleaf1第一次见面的日子。再经过三个多月的沟通了解之后,我们就决定结婚了。整个过程过于顺理成章,以至于我现在回想起来脑海中只有四个字:命中注定

事后我问过他第一次见面的想法,他说见到你的一瞬间就像有人在头顶放了一束烟花,心里再也没有办法平静了。就是这样简单,奇迹大概也就是这样吧。平日里,我们几乎在聊世界上所有的事情,沟通算是这段关系里最重要的一件事情。有什么疑惑都在第时间解决,一切都出于自然。每一次见到他,都有种回到家门口时,手机会自动连上Wifi的感觉。也许是我把事情说得太过完美,那也是因为在我写这段经历时心里满满都是温暖。瑕疵当然有,心酸有时,误解有时,悲伤有时,失落有时,烦闷有时。但这些都不是很重要,重要的是互相信任,共同承担。婚姻本是两个人的事,共同努力加紧经营

我和Autumnleaf1识相爱的这一年里,就像所有普通的恋人该有的程序,没有什么特别之处,要说真有不同的地方,那便是我们一路走来多了很多的文书要弄,多了很多航班要坐。现在,我们的移民签证已经得到,他和他的女儿将到中国来接我和我的女儿,七月初,我们一家六口将一同飞回瑞典,我们将是一个快乐的大家庭。所以细节的东西便不再想描述太多。我只想写写自己心里的感受和想法,希望有缘的人不要因为时间地域的不同或者自己内心的小纠结而错过对方。如果说这段感情里有什么是大家可借鉴的,那就是有什么事千万别憋心里,有什么感觉有什么想法真实自然地表达出来,多和对方沟通

最后谢谢CLM网站,地球有510,000,000平方千米呢,我和Autumnleaf1这个网站里碰上了百分百的对方,不得不感恩

This CLM couple really make a great match.

Best Wishes/Comments
SilenceKin 4/30/2014 8:18:07 PM @SilenceKin
北欧男人这种性格的多吗 ? 真的很适合中国女人,女主文笔真好, 诗意的.
Connie777 2/24/2014 9:49:24 PM @Connie777
祝福你们,愿单身的姐妹都能找到自己的幸福!
yinghua9768 12/23/2013 11:21:40 AM @yinghua9768
祝福:和谐美满!
sunny2014 12/13/2013 1:30:45 PM @sunny2014
@May393 & Autumnleaf1 祝你们永远幸福快乐!甜蜜的家庭生活!
Sissylu 7/17/2013 3:09:41 PM @Sissylu
看了你的资料,我才知道原来我们来自同个城市NN. 看到如此幸福的画面,如此熟悉的背景,也许这也是一种缘分,姐姐,再次祝福你们,永远幸福快乐,生活美满!
juliet79 7/17/2013 9:17:46 AM @juliet79
太幸福了!!
Sissylu 7/16/2013 6:29:56 PM @Sissylu
祝福你们,永远幸福美满! 谢谢你们跟我们分享喜讯,看到如此幸福的画面,多么令人感动。 这让我更有信心地相信,我也会找到属于自己的真正的另一半one day. 祝福你们!
shellnong 7/13/2013 11:34:26 AM @shellnong
幸福,祝福! 相信爱,便有爱!
springflower06 7/4/2013 5:22:07 AM @springflower06
A big congradulation to both of you! The wedding photo looks so nice with happiness. Thank you for sharing your love stroy .
prana 6/28/2013 7:50:05 PM @prana
好幸福的一对,祝福你们!~>_<~+
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