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Of course, like all serious dating sites we have our success stories, and here are some of them. These Western men came to CLM to seek, find, meet, befriend, chat with, and love a beautiful Chinese women, and succeeded. So can you.
Jane9 and Nekko Are Married After Finding Each Other On CLM.

A Chinese woman and Western man find happiness on writes:  A friend suggested I give internet dating a try. I found one dating site with positive comments from existing user and paid the membership fee. This website is I put up photos and a description of me. This happened in early June of 2013.

After only 2 days I started to receive messages from women that like my profile page. I asked for the QQ number. QQ is a communications platform and is similar to Skype. All the woman were happy to give me the QQ number. Soon I had 57 QQ friends. Talking to 57 woman is time consuming and difficult.  

I received a message from a woman who was interested in chatting. I checked the profile photos. The photos were not good. The photo was done with the computer camera. ¬¬¬¬This woman would become my wife. At this stage I did not know this. We sent messages back and forth for a couple of days. Then we went on QQ and started chatting on the 31st July 2013.

She looked so pleasant and was quite delightful to chat to. After a week I noticed that she is the only woman I actually chat to at all. I soon realized that there was something special about this person. Love isn't something you find. Love is something that finds you. I just did not know that yet. Every evening we chatted for 2-3 hours. Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye. We talked every day. I got to know this person very well.

She is kind and considerate person. I found her to be most delightful to chat to and she is pretty as well.

She told me that she is investing in the stock market. This is an area that interests me. I have read books about the share market and I have lost money in the market. I got to understand that she is smart in the way she invests the money and makes a small profit. As I discovered she only had limited amount of money to invest. I suggested we become business partners. She accepted and I sent her money for investing. Gestures, in love, are incomparably more attractive, effective and valuable than words.

We now were business partners with 50/50 interest in the market. I trust her. I believe that trust is very important in a relationship. On QQ the physical aspect does not get in the way. What I mean to say is this; there is nothing else to do, except talk. We really had to communicate and I eventually found that this has developed into a serious relationship. It is difficult to know at what moment love begins; it is less difficult to know that it has begun.

After many weeks on QQ, we started to think about a meeting in person. I liked the idea. This person was kind, funny and intelligent. This is the kind of person I would like to meet. We already are business partners and hopefully we can become life partners. We decided I should go to China. Her home town is Baotou, Inner Mongolia. In December I could take holidays and travel to China to meet her. She warned me that the weather is very cold in December. The coldest recorded temperature is -28 Celsius. This was not going to stop me.  

She wanted to meet me in Beijing. I arrived in Beijing on 4th December 2013. She came by train to Beijing to meet me at the airport. We flew together from Beijing to Baotou. I offered her to fly to Beijing, but she wanted to see the scenery. This is a 12 hour train trip.

We met at the airport. This is something I never forget. She is so shy and beautiful. Instantly I know she is the woman for me. The meeting just confirmed what I suspected that we are meant for each other. Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies. Now I found the other half. We went and ate breakfast. She was so shy with very little eye contact. We talked and talked. I was so happy to meet her in person. She said that she is happy to meet me and see me in person. I was delighted how beautiful she looks. She looks even prettier than on camera.

As we had discussed the possibility of marriage before we decided to get a “Certificate of No Impediment” from the Australian Embassy in Beijing. We had planned to see the Great Wall, but this is more important. In the evening we flew to Baotou. We arrived in her hometown and I realized that the weather is much colder than Beijing. The coldest morning was minus 20 degrees. The day usually warmed to about minus 5 degrees. This felt like a heatwave.

She rented a 2 bedroom unit for us. She showed me the unit and I unpacked. We talked and laughed together. Her English ability is good. We decided after a few days that we are meant for each other. We realized we love each other and want to spend the rest of our lives together. We decided to get married in Baotou. A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge and I knew that this is the woman for me.

We married on the 9th of December 2013. This is also my birthday. Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible - it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any material possession could. In love the paradox occurs that two beings become one and yet remain two. I am the happiest man alive.

We have been together for 28 days, every day and every minute. I have to rely on her to translate and show me the city. I would be lost without her. I was feeling the caring and loving woman my wife is. For it was not into my ear she whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips she kissed, but my soul. What we have once enjoyed we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us. My wife is part of me now.

The time was flying by and it was time for me to pack the bag and return to home. I had more space in my luggage and my wife suggested that I take some of her clothes and shoes as well. I was informed by my wife that there are more clothes stored at her father’s place. Why am I not surprised? We packed the suitcase with her clothes as well. I now have a wardrobe full of my wife’s clothes and shoes. There is more to come when she arrives with more suitcases full of clothes, shoes and handbags. Why am I not surprised?

The day of the return was not a happy day for either of us. The parting was teary and painful. I was surprised how much I miss her before I even left. She cried and I was crying a bit. I am strong and do not usually cry. We loved with a love that was more than love. Whatever our souls are made of, hers and mine are the same. Love is but the discovery of us in others, and the delight in the recognition. I have found myself in her.

I am very fortunate to meet this wonderful woman and to marry her. I miss my wife very much. The moment you have in your heart this extraordinary thing called love and feel the depth, the delight, the ecstasy of it, you will discover that for you the world is transformed. My wife has transformed my world. The one thing we can never get enough of is love. And the one thing we never give enough is love. She has given me all her love and I have given her all my love. One is loved because one is loved. No reason is needed for loving.

I am now back in Sydney. I miss my wife and hope that she will be with me soon. We are applying for the spouse visa now. Love is of all passions the strongest, for it attacks simultaneously the head, the heart and the senses.Every day we chat on QQ. We make plans for the future. The sweetest of all sounds is that of the voice of the woman I love.  

I wish to express my thanks and gratitude to the people that make the website possible.

The website is the website that made me meeting my future wife possible. Without the continued effort and dedication of the people working behind the scenes to make the running of the website smooth and enjoyable the possibility exists that I may have never met my wife. A big thank you to you all who made this possible, with your dedication and commitment to Thank you.

This happy couple made the very most out of their online Chinese dating experience.
Jane9 writes:  love story-----爱的故事-----现在想想总是感觉非常的幸运 。我和我的丈夫在伊甸园认识 ,这是一个好的网站带给我们这个好的机会,这里人气不错,很多人都曾主动联系我。之前我和其他人也曾信件往来其中一南非的,还加了qq好友,他非常喜欢我盼望和我见面,但我认为对方比我小一岁而且比较富有,尽管天天对我殷勤表达爱意,甚至也有见面后发展为婚姻伴侣,至少是股票合作伙伴的承诺,但是说实话我不是很安心,虽然聊天中也有比较好的感觉。有一天当无意中看到我现任丈夫的相片和资料,我非常仔细的阅读了他的资料,我认为他是一个和我一样感情曾经受到过伤害而现在在认真的寻找婚姻的好男人。接下来的qq聊天中也再一步证实我的判断是对的。他真的非常认真诚实和善良,同时也感觉他很睿智和幽默,与他的每一次聊天都是那么的愉快和默契,每一天的聊天都是我们彼此最盼望的重要的和快乐时刻。我们彼此感觉总是那么的美好,我们有很多共识和兴趣爱好,而且我们发现彼此正是那个自己要寻找的灵魂伴侣,所以我们决定付诸行动,将这可遇不可求的网络爱情演绎为真实的动人的爱情故事,去年12月9日我们已经结婚现在正在等待签证中。网络聊天每天仍然继续,我们爱的故事也将永远继续,我感觉我是世界上最幸福的女人。我愿意尽我所能的付出所有的努力爱他照顾他和我们渴望已久的家直到时间的尽头

Best Wishes/Comments
WangLee0088 10/4/2018 6:11:44 AM @WangLee0088
This is incredible
Nekko 3/27/2018 10:03:10 PM @Nekko
@Trishachi Thank you for your best wishes. She is still wonderful woman for me and I am very happy. She is now in Sydney and her son is also with us. He is learning English and working a little. We traveled to Switzerland in 2016 to meet my family. They all like her very much. Best wishes
Trishachi 2/25/2017 3:38:58 PM @Trishachi
Wish you happiness.I wish one day I could meet a really love me like this, the man who want to spend the rest of my life with me.
Nekko 2/7/2015 2:51:09 PM @Nekko
@melcyan You are correct. It was a huge relief that the visa was approved. I had discussed the different visa options with my Immigration Agent. I had used this agent previously and was successful. The conclusion was the spouse visa. No, I would not have chosen a different option, even with hindsight. With the fiancée visa you apply twice for a visa. Like you say "fiancee visa may have been approved in 9 months". Maybe yes , maybe not. Correction also need to be made. The application for the visa was made in March 2014. The visa was granted on 4th February 2015. I think that is about 12 month. The waiting is over. The flight has been booked. One way only. Soon. Oh, how sweet this will be to hold and to cherish the woman I love. The plan is to be together for the next 55 years, so what is 12 month? This puts this into perspective doesn't it? Cheers,
melcyan 2/6/2015 1:24:21 PM @melcyan
@nekko and @Jane9 Congratulations!, it must be a huge relief for you both for this long uncertain wait to have ended. I know the two of you wanted to be married at the earliest possible time but it took 14 months for the spouse visa to be approved. Nothing is certain but a fiancee visa may have been approved in 9 months which may have resulted in you being together in Austrlia 5 months earlier. If you had your time again and you were confident that that you would not lose your partner to another man, would you have chosen the finacee visa pathway?
Nekko 2/4/2015 2:40:39 PM @Nekko
@jhcmm ,@onlyyou2000 ,@Barry1 ,@melcyan Hello, just a quick update. The spouse visa has been granted for my wife today. I expect her to arrive in the next 2-3 weeks in Sydney, Australia. Her son also has received the visa. He will finish the university study. He will join us in June or July this year in Australia. I am very happy now, over the moon, as we say. Finally I will hold my dearest wife in my arms again. The rest you can imagine. Cheers,
Nekko 10/18/2014 4:06:38 PM @Nekko
@jhcmm Thank you for your kind wishes. I do not often go to this page, so only saw the comment today. At the moment we are waiting for the visa. My wife will soon be with me. I wish you all the best success in your life. Nekko
jhcmm 7/9/2014 3:05:03 PM @jhcmm
Nekko 6/27/2014 5:48:13 PM @Nekko
@onlyyou2000 Thank you. All the best to you. May all your wishes come true. Nekko and Jane9
onlyyou2000 6/25/2014 1:24:22 PM @onlyyou2000
Congratulations !!!
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