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Success Stories
         
Of course, like all serious dating sites we have our success stories, and here are some of them. These Western men came to CLM to seek, find, meet, befriend, chat with, and love a beautiful Chinese women, and succeeded. So can you.
美丽的邂逅 A Beautiful Encounter on CLM

Happy Chinese American Married Couple那是2013年底,第一次见到sean的照片,心里就有一种异样的感觉, 觉得我和他 之间会发生些什么,但这个念头一出现,就被我立即否定了。原因是我在chinalovematch已经注册一年左右,也聊过很多人,但最后都是无疾而终,自己已经失去信心。不再相信会有好运气光临。抱着试试看的想法,我还是主动给他发了信息,很快就得到了他的回复,就这样,每天只要有时间我们就互发邮件,聊对生活的看法,聊音乐,聊工作,无话不谈,好像总有聊不完的话题,以此加深对彼此的了解 ,或许是这个原因,我们在很短的时间就赢得了彼此的信任。他决定来中国,我们彼此约定真正见面的时候,一定要展现最真的一面,不要刻意掩盖自己的缺点,以免将来造成不必要的麻烦。然后四个月后,他来到我的城市,见到了我的家人,真正的会面,让我们彼此更加认定对方就是自己要寻觅的人。于是,在我们见面三个月后,处于对彼此的真诚,我飞到美国他所在的城市,也去了解一下他 的生活工作环境和家人。一切都很顺利,我们登记结婚了。回国的前几天,发现自己竟然怀孕了,考虑再三,我们最终做出了抉择,( 艰难的抉择,我如果留在美国,就等于我要放弃自己在国内已经接近二十年还算不错的工作,在新的环境一切从零开始),我们请了律师,申请了绿卡,现在国内的孩子也过来上学了,小儿子健康活泼可爱,我也有了新的工作,慢慢适应了异乡的环境,sean努力工作,是个浪漫的有责任心的好丈夫,当然也有小吵闹,但也总能通过沟通来化解。我算是个幸运的女人,经历了很多的痛苦之后,终于能在后半生找到自己的真爱,我对现在的一切都很满意,感谢china lovematch让我找到了我的理想的伴侣,感谢上帝,让我获得真爱,真的有一种苦尽甘来的感觉。

 
中间一个小小的插曲,跟大家分享一下,在我跟sean接触不久,他 告诉我他还在跟另一个女人同时聊,就在我觉得我对他越来越 有感觉和信心的时候,忽然一天,他跟我说另一个女人的谈话感动了他,他觉得她更像他梦中要寻找的妻子。(后来了解到她对他说,如果他们结婚,她会是一个好妻子,或者好妈妈,所以让他感动。而我比较含蓄,觉得刚刚认识,还不甚了解,所以还没有聊到这样的话题)。听了他的话,我很伤心,觉得又是上帝跟我开了一个不大不小的玩笑,于是,我给发了一封邮件,告诉他如果我不能成为他的number 1,我宁愿放弃,也不可能跟他做朋友。他很伤心。然后我删除了自己在china love match的账户,删除了他所有的照片和邮件,把他从我的skype联系人中删除,重新注册了账号,更换了我所有的照片,我不想为这个人再浪费时间。出乎我的意料,我竟然又收到了他发给我新账号的邮件(或许我的退出让他觉得我在他心中的重要),于是我们又重新开始聊起来。他最终又做出了一个艰难的决定,觉得我更适合他。那时是一段很痛苦的经历。我最终凭自己的智慧赢得了自己想要的爱情。
 
还有几点心得供姐妹们借鉴:1.对于感情的选择,要果断,不要优柔寡断,跟随自己的感觉,有时候退也是进,是你的终归是你的,不要把时间浪费在一个三心二意的人身上。2.提高警惕性,骗子我也遇到过。3.坚持自己的信念,总有一天你会遇到你的真爱。4.提高自己的英语水平,你会更好的适应国外的生活。
 
最后祝姐妹们都能心想事成,梦想成真。- qdphoebe

Chinese Woman and American Man

When I first registered with ChinaLoveMatch.net, I was a cautious for many reasons.

I was leery of being scammed.  I was unsure if I would be able to find out enough about a potential mate to make a good decision one way or another.  I also knew that bringing a foreign wife to my country could be a long, expensive process.  There was uncertainty concerning a foreign mate's ability to adjust to a completely different country and culture.  In addition, there was the language barrier issue...would my wife and I be able to understand each other enough to keep a good communication channel going so we could work through potential issues that come up?  Finally, I wasn't excited about having the "mail order bride" stigma.
 
My life situation ten years prior to me coming to CLM was fundamentally different.  When I was 35 I was not interested in getting married or having a child.  I had a good job (the same job I have now) and I valued my free time.  I had been married once before when I was much younger and it lasted 30 months and ended with no bills, no children, and no regrets as they say.
 
In my early 40's something changed inside me, like a light switch being flipped.  I wanted a wife again.  I wanted a family.  I wanted to watch my family grow together.
 
Both of my brothers prefer and married Hispanic women, but I had been attracted to the Asian woman look since I was in elementary school.  Most men value certain female body parts more than others, and for me it's always been the eyes.  A woman with beautiful eyes is beautiful to me, and Asian eyes are the most beautiful in my opinion.
 
So, there I was, 45 years old & recently out of a relationship, sitting at home in front of my computer desk registering on the CLM website.
 
Chinese Woman in AlaskaEveryone has things they want out of a relationship.  For me, it was very clear what I didn't want.  I didn't want a needy, dependent companion that required me to do everything for her.  I didn't want a submissive companion that walks behind me and agrees with everything I say.  I didn't want someone a lot younger than me with different generational values.
 
I needed someone closer to my own age who was mature-minded and could bring their own rich life experiences into my life.  I needed someone who cared about me deeply yet could look me in the eye and give me the tough love treatment (telling me I'm screwing up) when necessary.  I needed a grounded, strong-minded woman who I could love and respect.
 
Thanks to CLM, I was lucky enough to end up with such a person.
 
My wife, Lei, is the ideal woman for me.  When I started talking to her on CLM, I was impressed by her genuineness and honesty. I felt very comfortable chatting with her from the very start.  Throughout the entire process of searching for a mate, she was always at the top of the list of other candidates.  In the end, the choice for me came down to Lei and one other candidate.  I chose to come visit only Lei in China and I have never regretted that decision.  She's a wonderful, beautiful person, and the one I needed, and I love her with all my heart.
 
Upon moving to my city, Lei did an exceptional job of adjusting to life here.  She quickly obtained her driver's license and learned the layout of the city.  She would constantly try to improve her English and I really enjoyed explaining things to her so she could understand.  She has earned my respect, and I'm very proud to be able to say that she is my wife.
 
Today, we live together in the great state of Alaska in the United States and our bond is stronger than ever.   We've been married for almost 3 years now, and welcomed our beautiful son, Zachary, who was born in April, 2015.  Since then, Lei's son, Steven, from her previous marriage has joined us.  The four of us get along very well, and currently I am helping Steven with his homework from school and teaching him how to drive.  I consider Steven as my own son now. 
 
I'm not the kind of person that gives advice to others much, but I sincerely hope that anyone out there that is considering taking a Chinese woman as a wife has their own beautiful success story to tell.
 
I also want to give a special thanks to John Abbot for the existence of the CLM website.  It was easy and fun to use, and without it I would have never found my soulmate, and consequently my son Zachary would not be here with us.  Thank you very much, John!
 
Thanks also goes out to to Paul Fox for the great articles I was able to learn from, as well as Panda, Dancingshoes and Barry Pittman for their friendship and advice during that time.  You're all fantastic people and I'll keep the fond memories of you with me always! - BalancedLife

Chinese American Family in Alaska

Best Wishes/Comments
xiuliwang 12/6/2017 8:27:22 AM @xiuliwang
Glade to read your experience, thanks for your writing. Wish you have the wonderful life forever!
BalancedLife 7/25/2017 1:12:34 PM @BalancedLife
@snow258 We are in anchorage,you ?
snow258 7/15/2017 3:56:19 AM @snow258
祝福你们有情人终成眷属!不知你在阿拉斯加哪个地方?我也在阿拉斯加,以后可以多联系呦!
yx020 7/2/2017 12:09:46 PM @yx020
happy family !
IsabellaFly 6/24/2017 5:25:09 PM @IsabellaFly
Congrats!! ----Isabella B.
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