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Why Women of China are Great Matches for Foreign Men

Another Real CLM Success StoryLet's not beat around the bushes here.  Chinese women are the ideal choice for a mate for foreign men because they offer all the qualities that such men desire in a life partner, and more… so much more.
Making a lifelong commitment is no small deal – it’s probably the most important decision you’ll make in your life.  So the importance of wisely choosing a life partner cannot be overstated.  For western men, the ideal lifelong partner is, on top of being someone they love, a woman they can completely trust, respect, and take pride in.  And these ladies are, without a doubt, the complete package.
Women of China “date” to find a mate for life – not just to test the waters and never just to satisfy a temporary need.  To the Chinese, dating is serious business about a lifelong commitment. So when one of these women decides you are her man, you can trust her to love you and care for you until death do you part! 

You can bare your soul to her and you won’t be afraid that she won’t accept you.  Western men know very well that it is nearly impossible nowadays to find such a partner among western women; but when you find the right Chinese woman, trusting her will come easily and because you’ll have no doubt that she will be there for you through thick and thin.
The woman you’ll spend the rest of your life with must, of course, be somebody you can respect or, more precisely, somebody that has earned your respect.  When you get to know the ladies of CLM, respect for them will come easily.  Their incredible strength in pursuing self-improvement while also trying to live up to the traditional gender expectations borne by them; their independence despite the obstacles that are designed to take it away from them; their aspirations to be the best they can be and to be “good women” despite all the discouragements thrown at them by their society – you will quickly come to hold them in the utmost respect!

And, as the world is fast discovering, Chinese women are beautiful – inside and out!  The genuine women of CLM are all attractive in own ways, whatever their age, because they take care of themselves really well and take great pride in their appearance.  Looking good and feeling good are, of course, a big part of loving one’s self and a healthy dose of vanity is something that you’ll appreciate in your life mate, especially as your friends look on in envy! Once you come to know some of the female members of CLM, you will learn that they also have the intelligence and a kind heartedness to match their outward appeal.  Any western man would be lucky, and should be proud, to find such a woman and to have her as his mate! 

No ifs or buts about it – Chinese women make the ideal life mate for foreign men! 

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CLM: Your Home For Chinese Dating

One of many success stories.

Today, with the amazing technology made available to us, forming personal relationships has become so much easier, and building and maintaining those relationships online has become widely accepted. Cross-cultural relationships have also become a more attractive option for many.  In Western society and among Western women, love of family has come to take a back seat to the satisfaction of material desires, an addiction to multiple and ever-changing sexual partners and a focus solely on the needs of self over those of others. No wonder many Western men have started to look across cultural borders and discovered there are women with higher, more honorable and more traditional values waiting for them on the other side.

In that regard, Chinese women have become recognized as the crème de la crème. While they are taking part in perhaps the most amazing economic upswing in history, and taking giant steps forward in career growth and gaining equality, the women of China have held fast to their traditional family values. They are managing to grasp and enjoy their rightful personal independence without also acquiring the incredible sense of entitlement that has consumed their Western counterparts.

Amazingly, in China, the men have not kept pace in changing their thinking and accepting greater equality for their female mates, so countless female Chinese singles are flocking online in search of a Western mate who will treat them with the love and respect they can't find at home.  Now, more than ever, Western men who could not find contentment in the relationships they have had with Western women have the opportunity to test the waters of a cross-cultural partnership with a Chinese lady.  Countless Western-Chinese couples have successfully found that elusive true love online and are now living happy lives.

Thousands of Chinese women join the ChinaLoveMatch community monthly to find their Mr. Right, not just Mr. Okay or Mr. Very Likely.  They come to CLM because, of all the international Chinese dating sites, we are the one most trusted by them. This is with good reason, as we take care of them in ways unmatched by other sites, particularly in protecting them from scammers and womanizers. Likewise Western men curious about dating in China and looking for a reputable Chinese dating site love to use the services of CLM because we know how to take care of our members.  On CLM members are just that, members, not numbers.

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Why Online Chinese Dating on CLM is the Way to Go!

Lots of women just like this are waiting now on CLM.Meeting girls at bars?  – hardly the way to find a “keeper”, because we all know the types of girls that go to bars to meet men.  Letting your friends or family set you up on a blind date? – a disaster each and every time, or at best a complete waste of your time.  Finding that perfect girl at the gym, a café, the park, or any other random place? – your chances are one in a million.  But online Chinese dating? – with thousands of genuine, beautiful women all looking for the same thing that you are: lasting love and happiness – this is definitely the way to go!
Hands down, Chinese women are the better choice as a life partner, when compared to western women, and countless western men know this to be true!  The best way to meet them and to find your one true love is through serious Chinese dating on CLM!  
Online dating has had a bad rep for so long – only losers who don’t know how to pick up girls use it; dating sites are full of scammers that will bleed you dry; real relationships can’t be built online.  So what sets Chinese dating online, especially on, apart?
First of all, and perhaps most significantly of all, the quest for a life partner is one that the Chinese do not take lightly; it is an essential part of who they are as a people and as a society.  There is no concept of “casual dating” in Chinese culture; these are women who mate for life.
That being said, CLM is in the serious business of helping people find that one person that they’ll want to spend the rest of their life with.  Online Chinese dating is a worthwhile pursuit because it is the sure path to the ultimate dream of living your life “happily ever after.”  And CLM, owned by a western man and his Chinese wife, is committed to helping people successfully follow the right path and achieve that dream.
Foreign men who are sincerely looking for love in the arms of a good, Chinese woman need not despair because they are on the other side of the world; expats in China who are still culturally impaired need not lose hope of ever finding their Chinese love.  Through a trustworthy and reputable dating platform such as CLM, the dream of having a good, Chinese wife and finding lasting love and happiness can and will become a reality.  If you are serious in your quest for true love there is no surer course than serious online Chinese dating on
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Dating Chinese Women is Not the Same! Here's Some Tips.

Traditional Chinese WomanSo you think you’re a master pick-up artist; you have been around the dating block many times; and you feel that you’re a veritable Casanova, a bona fide Ladies’ Man.  But now you feel you are ready for that lifelong commitment. Or perhaps you’re just a normal guy who has so far been unsuccessful in your search for your ideal woman. Either way, now you would like to step out of your comfort zone and brave the world of cross-cultural dating, specifically Chinese dating.
That’s actually a good plan. Chinese women are, as countless western men know, the ideal choice!  But if you want to successfully date a Chinese woman, don’t forget that it’s not the same as dating western women!
Slowly but surely wins the race – make this the cornerstone of your approach to Chinese dating and you won’t go wrong.  Again, Chinese women are seriously looking for The One, their Mr. Right; this is no game to them. Once they have made a choice, they devote their entire life loving this man.  The phrase “lifetime commitment” is one that they take seriously and literally.  Some of them commit quickly, because once they feel you meet the basic requirements, they believe love will follow over time. Others have already made one mistake and don’t want to make another. This means they will want to take their time getting to know a potential partner.  Have patience with those who push too hard and with those who are afraid of failure; it will pay off.
Honesty is the best policy – lay your cards on the table so you won’t waste anybody’s time!  Dating a Chinese woman is not like all those transitory encounters you used to have with western women – when fibbing and embellishing were an acceptable practice.  Chinese women already know what they’re looking for in a partner; their expectations are already set; their hopes for the future, painted clearly and indelibly in their head.  So be honest about what you have to offer, about your goals and your own expectations.  Honesty is a trait Chinese women value highly in a potential partner.

Flattery will not get you anywhere – at least, not anywhere near your goal of finding a good, Chinese wife!  What will make your Chinese dating pursuits bear fruit is your willingness to go the extra mile to learn as much as you can about Chinese women, Chinese culture, Chinese language, and all the other things that will serve as the foundation of your future cross-cultural relationship.  She will appreciate the compliment when you tell her she’s lovely, but if you really want to impress a Chinese woman, send her a simple message in Chinese or show interest in a certain Chinese cuisine, tradition, or holiday.
Keep the romance alive – western style romance is something all Chinese women long for and they will appreciate even the smallest, romantic gesture because this is something that Chinese men don’t understand.  You don’t have to be extravagant to sweep her off her feet; you just have to be thoughtful and affectionate to make a Chinese woman swoon, but, of course, be sincere about it!

Have a life plan, and make it one you can deliver on.  These ladies are interested in a lifelong future with you, and that requires that there is some security in such a life. Show her you can and will, with her assistance, be able to provide her a good home and a secure life. Chinese women are incredibly hard workers, and she will do everything she can to make your plan work, so long as she believes it’s a good plan, and you are a good man.

Dating Chinese women is not about fun and games, although once they feel secure and loved these women are as vibrant and fun to be with as any women in the world. Let her know you are serious about the future too, not just fooling around. You’ll be well on your way to a lifetime relationship with a very fine Chinese woman.

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This is Your Opportunity For a Great Lifemate. Join CLM Now!

Chinese women like this await you on CLM.

We mentioned this above, but it bears repeating. Look at the Chinese woman to the left. Ask yourself this:

Is there ever going to be a woman like this waiting to meet you in the bar you hang at? Or any other bar?

Are any of your blind dates (if you’re lucky enough to have any) ever a quality lady like her?

Is someone like her hoping to meet you at the gym, in a coffee shop, at work, or anywhere else?

Because thousands of quality Chinese women like her are sitting at home right now and hoping to meet a guy like you on CLM.  And you can meet them in the comfort of your own home.

For less money per month than you pay for a few drinks in that bar where there is nobody waiting to meet you, or for half a dozen or so coffees in that coffee shop, you can be meeting truly wonderful women who want to have a long term relationship with a guy like you. 

What’s stopping you? Get on board CLM today?


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