Online Chinese Dating Safety Tips & Advice at CLM.net

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	<span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17); font-size: 9pt;">As we have said in </span><a href="http://www.chinalovematch.net/datingsafety.aspx?action=aod" target="_self"><span style="color:#a50000;"><u><i><span style="font-size: 9pt;">About Online Dating</span></i></u></span></a><span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17); font-size: 9pt;">, web dating can be, and probably 99% of the time is, a lot of fun. This section is not designed to scare you away from web dating or any other use of the internet. Rather it is intended to help you ensure that you never have to fall into that 1% of people who do not end up having a good experience dating on the internet.</span><span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17); font-size: 9pt;"><br />
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	There are three general categories of individuals you can encounter on the web who represent decreasing degrees of danger or threat to your web safety, and to some extent to your psychological and even physical well being. These people are the basic scum of the earth and require your ongoing vigilance. We have divided them into three categories based not on the type of activity they engage in, which is similarly fraudulent activity based upon lies and deceit, but is rather divided according to the degree of harm they are prepared to or intending to inflict upon you. They are, from the most harmful to least harmful, the following: </span></p>
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	<b><span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17); font-size: 9pt;">1. Predators </span></b></div>
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	<span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17); font-size: 9pt;">Let's get this straight; there is scant evidence that any of the serious predator crimes discussed under this heading have ever taken place in connection with a web dating site. But there is legitimate concern that it may happen someday. It is of course a major concern with similarly styled predators (pedophiles) preying on children on the internet. So don't panic please, we just feel it our duty to advise you, our member, of any risks to be on the lookout for. </span></div>
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	<span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17); font-size: 9pt;">These people have no conscience and are prepared, indeed planning, to do you grievous harm. They include men who have intentions of sexual assaults on unsuspecting women, and individuals, couples or groups who may wish to lure you, be you male or female, halfway around the world in order rob you, kidnap you, enslave you or worse. Of course they are a few individuals out of millions, and your chances of encountering one of them are extremely low, perhaps lower than being struck by lightning, but if you do you should know the signs to look for and the precautions to take. </span></div>
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	<span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17); font-size: 9pt;">Of course their plans are detailed and well thought out, so they will always have a good story to tell. Watch out for too good a story. They have an agenda, so watch out for someone who doesn't want to adapt to your needs. They need to be in control and want to get you on their turf, so don't let them set all the guidelines as to where your first meeting will take place, or when. If you aren't easily controlled you make a difficult victim – it becomes easier to just pass on you and look for someone who does what they're told. However, we are not experts on this subject. If you wish to know more one place you might start is a book called <i>"Web Stalkers – Protect Yourself from Internet Criminals and Psychopaths"</i>, written by Donald Andert & Donald K. Burleson. </span></div>
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	<span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17); font-size: 9pt;">Some of the tips set out below under "Scammers" and "Game Players" apply to Predators as well, perhaps even more so.

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