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Finding Love And Happiness Through An Online Dating Service by John Abbot

Finding Love And Happiness Through An Online Dating Service

Why do people consider dating singles online, and why should you?  Partly because it's always pleasurable and reassuring to join a community of like-minded people; especially a large community of people who have come together, in this case online, because they share one common goal: finding their true love.    

You might be asking what makes dating singles online so special? The answers are both simple and yet profound:

1. Unmarried people, tired of traditional dating routines, wish to spice up their rather (or nonexistent) dull dating lives and opt to follow a different path to find romance and love. If you are one of those people who feel that finding the right one is already a difficult chore and task; because of all the pressures and demands, then you need to take a serious look at dating sites which cater to unattached people. In an evening in the comfort of your own home you can meet literally hundreds of eligible people, and almost instantly discard the mismatches. In normal dating you could spend years doing the same thing.

Sometimes your perfect match is less than perfect. Cartoon by Randy Glasbergen

Plus, by dating singles online you may find the ‘one’ with not only far fewer hassles but also at substantially reduced outlay of cash. When dating singles online, you don't need to go out “hunting”, you don't have to spend big sums of money on clothes to wear, or buy expensive drinks in clubs or bars, or pay for outrageously expensive dinners or shows.

We highly recommend dating sites that do charge a reasonable fee and provide real service instead of just an enormous group of people, half of whom are not genuine and are really only there to scam you in some manner. For $150 a year you can get the top services of some really excellent dating websites. This weeds out the scammers and users to a large degree, and if someone isn't willing to pay the price of one dinner out for one full year's opportunity to meet someone else as special as you, then do you really want to meet that cheap so and so. To us, $150 per year seems a small price to pay for the biggest investment of one's life - their lifemate or spouse.  

2. By mixing with others on a website you can search for millions of other singles in a very short span of time. You can't do this with traditional methods.  Finding someone interesting on an online dating service can be simple as a few clicks, a little browsing and a visit to their profiles.

Once you read their profile, you will have an idea of whether you would be compatible with them or not. You can easily look for single people who play the same sports as you, a common interest in movies, or someone who has the same passion for cooking, dancing, writing, or anything that interests you the most.

3. Dating singles online will allow you to handle rejection, both theirs’ and your own. Since you are dealing with someone that you do not see in person; and you only have a photo as a reference, the feeling of rejection, both giving and receiving, is not so personal and therefore not so painful. If a particular member ignores you and does not respond to any of your messages, then you can easily move on to the next prospect. It is just that simple.

Rejection, giving or receiving, is relatively painless while online dating. Cartoon courtesy of Randy Glasbergen.

4. Singles online will allow you to narrow down your selections from wide varieties of people. If you're interested in or attracted to one particular ethnic group or nationality, then you can join an online dating service that caters to your interests. For example, if you are keen on meeting Asian or Chinese women, then you can join an internet dating website that is focused on introducing International men to China women or Asia women.

5. Once on the online dating site of your liking, as you try to narrow your choices, you'll be able to get to know people on a deeper level through instant messaging, emails and maybe phone chats. To put it simply; it is much easier to get to know someone online, before you actually meet them in person, because in the online situation they are more likely to be open and honest about who they are, and so are you.  

6. Quality online dating services are set up to make your online dating experience as enjoyable and as safe as possible. They provide features and functions that make it easy for you to communicate with your "dates" and easy to avoid being scammed or lied to. If you use all the tools provided, and get to know the people you meet in depth, narrowing your ultimate choices down to a special few before you meet them out there in the real world, you'll probably be a lot more comfortable dating singles online.  More importantly you'll probably be successful in finding that one special person who makes your life complete, be that a great Chinese or Asian lady or a fine European man or whoever else you’ve set your heart on.

From: Original         Author: John Abbot         Time: 3/5/2010 4:25:35 PM

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#2012-01-11 04:01:00 by Anonymous133247 @Anonymous133247
i love true and honesty person i will truth and real love for me
#2012-05-19 18:21:00 by biggyboy @biggyboy
Reply love is real for real people. if your real you get real love....
#2012-09-27 01:45:00 by rmf @rmf
Reply love is somthing makes two person like a flame and heat in a candel which can not be seperated.
#2012-11-10 20:46:00 by opokudarko123 @opokudarko123
Reply True love is security,satisfaction happiness and everlasting joy. The sweetest thing ever on earth is true feel safe and secured.
#2014-07-18 15:01:00 by Shirley000 @Shirley000
Reply I agree with you, A true love should be honesty with each other.

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