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Why Do Gui Laos (Foreign Devils) Prefer Chinese Women by Harry Monkey

Here’s why I think we like Chinese women:

1. Chinese Ladies are generally physically attractive, usually slender, often petite, rarely obese, and tend towards being graceful and delicate.  They consider physical attractiveness in themselves to be important and go to great lengths to be as beautiful as possible at all times (in other words “They take care of themselves!”).

2. Chinese girls are fun to be with – they take great joy out of small things, and they love to laugh.

3. Chinese women are caring, polite and usually very gentle and charming.

4. Marriage is very important to Chinese women, they commit to their partner for life, and it will take a great apocalyptic wrong by her partner to dissuade her from that commitment.  They are incredibly loyal, especially if that loyalty is reciprocated.


“Lost Love On The Great Wall”
by Hua Long
This painting is the artist’s vision of a popular Chinese legend about a Chinese maiden whose true love had been conscripted to labor on construction of the Great Wall in ancient times.  She traveled a great distance, enduring much hardship, in order to be with him, only to find on her arrival that like so many others who were forced to work on the wall, he had died in a tragic accident.  The legend is that the weight of her grief caused the collapse of a large section of the wall itself.

5.  As with marriage, the importance of family is paramount to a Chinese girl, and if you marry her you become family, at which time thousands of years of a tradition of taking care of her man will kick into high gear.

6. Chinese ladies adapt well to new cultures, surroundings and people so chances are good that your new Chinese partner will fit in with your family and friends and take well to your home country.

7. Chinese women actually appreciate Western Men (unlike most Western Women). They appreciate that we treat them with the same politeness and respect that they treat us, something they don’t often receive from Chinese men.

8. Chinese girls love that they get to be partners in their relationships with Western Men as opposed to being little more than slaves in their accustomed relationships, and they make good partners if given the opportunity.

Below is another point of view.  I can’t take credit for it (or perhaps I should say I don’t have to take credit for it), and I don’t know exactly who to give credit to, but I found it on a website called  It’s funny, nasty and politically incorrect.  I leave it up to you if it is true.  Meanwhile, I recommend Chinese women for the reasons above and some of those below.

Only marry foreign women.


A huge percentage of American women are selfish, flighty, insecure, needy and psychotic, and quite capable of concealing those traits during the dating phase
White 'career' American chicks are the bottom of the barrel marriage-wise.
Foreign women from South America, Eastern Europe, and Asia are at the top. Only guys who travel (in other words, guys who are successful and ambitious enough to travel a lot) find these. But they never, ever go back.
Foreign-born women living in the US are the next best. They get married early...they are highly sought-after by American guys for their wifely skills (hell, any women who has ANY ability to be a wife is better than your average American chick, who knows NOTHING about being a wife)
Bottom of the barrel---white American chicks. Yecch.
Here's a story: I knew a guy who was Hungarian (parents emigrated) who tried for 15 years to find a half-decent women to marry. He's a doctor, by the way. Finally after 8 psycho-weirdo US chicks, he went back to the 'old country' to find a wife. The people there were lining the women up for him to meet...he's a rich American guy...they are considered the best husbands in the world.
He found this lovely wife. She is a total gem, and he's happy as hell. 2 kids. Happily ever after.

I will go one step further and differentiate between Western women vs. non-Western women. This is not just an American phenomenon, most women in Western countries have that cold, bitchy, superficial, stuck up attitude. A lot of Western women hold themselves as the pure center of the relationship. If the men don't fit a rigid and unrealistic criteria or she doesn't feel the man can take care of her enough (even if she has a higher paying job) then she will drop him like a hot potato, regardless of his character or commitment to the relationship.
Popular Myth: Western men looking for foreign wives are only seeking subservient slaves.
Truth: Most Western men today are evolved and modern and truly believe in the 50/50 system. Most Western men are dismayed by the lack of sincerity of Western women. I can do my own laundry and cooking thank you!
Yes, Latin American and Eastern European women do make better mates because both come from more conservative and family oriented cultures where relationships and commitment are actually revered.

I was absolutely blown away by the quality of women on my trip to eastern Europe. Classy, cultured, traditional values, how could you ask for more?

One year with my Japanese girlfriend
So far...
-No fights.
-Great sex every night.
-She cooks a delicious meal every night (unless I take her out).
-No guilt trips for going out with the guys.
-Thin and absolutely beautiful.
Think I've finally found myself a keeper. One thing's for sure; I'll never go date an American girl again.

Latin American women seem to make decent wives. My friend married a hot girl from Venezuela. Sweet, beautiful, cooks, cleans, and is the perfect wife. Like how American women were in the 1950s America.

As I said, it's a competitive marketplace. We're not looking to marry other men. The real world is not about what is fair, but what you can get.
American men have options. American women do not. So the American women huff and puff, and scowl at the incoming foreign brides who don't demand the feminazi equality bullshit. You WISH American men didn't have choices. You're like a labor union that's pissed off because the company is hiring non-union employees.

Honestly I wish I could have found an American wife with all the qualities of my foreign wife. I could not, because they do not exist. Here is a partial list of her loveliness
1: Sensible and good with money.
2: Genuine commitment.
3: Very family oriented.
4: She enjoys housework.
5: Hard working.
6: She does not have to diet to look great
Foreign women are comfortable in their femininity. As a male I am attracted to this. And I love her with all my heart.
I believe that American women have priced themselves out of the marketplace. Too needy, too many headgames, too easy to divorce.
Not many foreign men want American wives either.

American women..
- highest maintenance (I've never heard of a foreign bride demanding her husband buy expensive house & cars)
- fattest in the world
- most likely to cheat
- highest rate of divorce (60% - US-US marriages; 20% - US-foreign marriages)
- largest payout in divorce court (you'll be ass-raped for everything you earned, plus most of what you will earn for years to come)
- bitchiest
- most likely to nag constantly
- most likely to believe in feminism and "equality"
- most likely to hate men
- spend least amount of time with her children
- worst at cooking and cleaning
- fucked & chucked by tons of guys before tricking you into marriage

3 reasons to marry an American woman
1.      You actually believe BBW = big BEAUTIFUL wife.
2.      You believe nagging is essential for personal growth.
3.      You really look forward to the day your BBW wife divorces you and you gladly fork over 50% over your hard earned assets, plus child support and alimony (a lard ass bitch for sure is not going to have a good job). Then after that you have to figure out how to live on 20% of your income.

Every foreign girl I've met was superior in every conceivable way to any other girl I've known, from attractiveness to personality.

I have a foreign Latino girl and she blows away American women. This web site are 100% true; I can speak from experience of living with my girl for a month. I could never go back to American trash women. I also use to think web sites like that were stupid until I had the experience for myself. It has changed my life for the better, made me look at American women in a different light.

I wouldn't even consider dating an American women, the majority are bitchy prudes that only put out when they think they can cash in. I for one will never spend a huge amount of money of some stupid bitch just to get laid. Mexican and Asian women are a much better choice and they look better than American chics too.

After many many years of dealing with American women, I've hit an interesting point. I've lost ALL sexual interest in them, in fact I just about puke walking down the sidewalk on any day, seeing all those shitty, rude, mean, snotty American women.
Strange thing, cause for so long I've been quite a horndog, chasing women at all levels. I'm still totally attracted to foreign women...Indians, Orientals, Europeans.
But show me an American chick and I basically couldn't care less. Tell me how "beautiful" she is...doesn't matter. I suppose from an intellectual viewpoint I can see the beauty, but it's not any more attractive to me than...let's say...admiring a beautiful horse or a well-groomed cat. OK, admirable, but not sexy folks.
They say that sex is 90% mental...well, my mind has rejected American women completely.

Since I've been traveling overseas I have met many nice Japanese, Russian, and Spanish women. I can tell you this....the women are so much better. I want a lady that, when I get home from work, would rather kiss me than scream at me for some trivial reason like I didn't mow the lawn. I can do without the nagging thanks. To all my fellow American men... American women are easily replaceable...go Asian, or Russian, even European (except British, Italian, and French women) and you can't go wrong. Experience is the best teacher.

I can not date white American women anymore. I was in the navy and I have seen the light. Women from other countries just look better and treat you better too! I didn't pay for shit when I was overseas and I pay up the wazoo here. Any rational person can figure it out from here.

American women are high-maintenance primadonnas with attitudes. I'd take a foreign born Russian or Latina woman any day. They are much nicer and normally MUCH SMARTER than most American women - plus they don't watch Rosie and Ricci Lake - they go to the library or perform outside activities.

Dating or being married to an American woman is like driving a beat-up Ford Escort. If you are only used to driving a beat-up Ford Escort, then you have no idea what it feels like when you drive a Bentley or Ferrari. You need to at least test-drive a Ferrari, so you'll have a reference point on what a real car feels like.

From: Original         Author: Harry Monkey         Time: 3/5/2010 2:57:53 PM

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#2012-05-21 21:08:00 by gaspasser @gaspasser
Reply Great article...I have found that to be true on some of the American women dating websites I have been hit the nail right square on the head...well done......
#2012-07-22 21:20:00 by afreind @afreind
Reply Wow.
Amen brothers.
#2012-08-07 20:21:00 by veryspecial1 @veryspecial1
Reply well
#2013-02-02 05:37:00 by Anonymous165208 @Anonymous165208
Chinese womens prefer to foreign mans because of so many reasons like, handsome, polite, romantics, well sexual activity, adventure, happiness, hope, if get marry can birth many baby and go another countries to live, not need spend all life for nonsense things (buy home or car by credits ) not need all life work like clerk, babies can speak at least 2 mother language, no need to parents pressure on all life, freedom, better life with better invoirement, such likes many reasons of these.COME ON CHİNESE WOMEN WAKE UPPP...
#2013-05-21 04:12:00 by sirhc304 @sirhc304
Reply WOW I thought I was the only one.Canadian chicks are just as bad if not worse!!
I was married to one she was screwing around on me, had a kid not mine. Found out by DNA test.It took over 9 months of me paying and fighter her to get child support dropped.
Did I get any of that back after proving it wasn't mine ... HELL NO.
Courts empower these money hunger whores.
They have a kid with you and that's there meal ticket.
I've been with many others and like what was said above , I find I'm not attracted to Canadian or US women.
I'm tired of being nagged , not good enough or NOT doing enough.
Buy shares in vibrator companies cause I think the foreign wives thing is catching on.
再见 zài jiàn white devils
#2015-09-07 04:04:00 by catincoq @catincoq
Reply wow, how do you really feel? lol
#2017-04-29 23:54:00 by jiansong @jiansong
Reply Guilao is an extremely derogatory term for foreigners used in Southern China. Also, these article seems to place Chinese women in an unrealistic light, and were probably copied from another website somewhere (they seem familiar). There are problems on both sides of the ocean, but the problems are different. I believe that you should understand these issues clearly in order to sincerely pursue a woman for marriage. After all, once married, they will become your problems too.
#2018-05-07 21:52:00 by oldghost @oldghost
Reply Full of stereotypes of course since each and every one is an individual. Gwei Loa or Gui lao I think is a Cantonese term from the 19th century, when the British and Chinese despised each other - i like the 'Ai Shui (loves water/piss)i' copied from the pretentious English 'I say I say'.

My 'oldghost name is the English version of my internet monicker 'laogui' but the lao is different as written in Chinese - 老鬼,鬼佬
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